"Someone is kind of making some sort of argument, and then you eventually realize that they're arguing against something that no one is actually even proposing that you do. And by making it clear that that's not being proposed, it can be...

"If we don't stop to say, 'What are our values?' the personal interest will become our values. It will be what guides the conversation."Karen &

"Because, fundamentally, our perspective is when you're getting a group of people together to do something, you want to make good use of that time."Karen &

"That's the thing we wanna reach for is the ability to do both. But in that moment that I know I don't have the capacity to do both, I reach for the one that's unfamiliar but that will save me from the trouble that I tend to get myself i...

"There's a cultural value around helping is good but receiving help is not. There's a one-up, one-down relationship between someone who is helping and someone who's receiving help."...